What's in a name?

Now that I've finally entered the second trimester (that's 35.0% completion!), I'm happy to say that I have just enough energy to roll over in bed in the mornings, turn the computer on, and plop back with six different pillows holding me up (it helps with the backaches, too... sometimes). My energy is nowhere near replenished (where have you been these past four months?!) and I'm still waking up to horrible vomit fits, but at least my late mornings and afternoons are bearable (nights, however, have become hellish).

So, in an attempt to get my mind off the aches and pains, I've been busy doing research in all sorts of new areas - looking up local hospitals that offer birthing classes, keeping in touch with other expecting mothers via message boards, and, most importantly, considering name possibilities for the baby.

Now, as a quick background, DH and I are probably what you would call "artsy" people. Frederik is very much a "natural philosopher", applying ancient theories and beliefs to just about every modern subject you can think of. He's fascinated by old-world teachings and would probably spend hours translating Latin texts if he could (interestingly enough, he also has an amazing understanding of technology and plantlife). I like to describe myself loosely as a postmodernist - my view of the world is strongly tied to my fascination with philosophy, art, history, and, above all, literature. There is nothing more beautiful and engaging to me than an involved reading of Shakespeare's work, and among my favorite literary pieces are the Greek epic The Aenid and Dante Alighieri's brillant Divine Comedy.

This is precisely where our name search has led us - Fred and I have agreed that we'd prefer a traditional but unique name for our child, and what better place to find inspiration than in the ancient classics? This brings up another interesting challenge in finding the "right" name - once you've found a good possibility, who's to say that your child won't be one of three other kids with the same name growing up? To see exactly what the odds of this were, Fred and I did a bit of testing on a widely-used name popularity website, Behind the Name.

We started off with a name that we both thought was charming, traditional, and somewhat unique. After entering the name into the search, we were surprised to find that its popularity was almost astounding:

Year(s) United States Top 1000 (male) Rank
2005 28
2004 32
2003 29
2002 32
2001 38
2000 44
1999 53
1998 54
1997 57
1996 61
1995 65
1994 68
1993 86
1992 86
1991 82
1990 100
1980-1989 90
1970-1979 114
1960-1969 313
1950-1959 414
1940-1949 443
1930-1939 414
1920-1929 405
1910-1919 421
1900-1909 460

For our next test round, instead of just choosing a name that we considered traditional, we went back into the literature on our shelves and searched for another name that had a similar feel (and even a similar spelling). While I won't reveal the name we tested with just yet, these are the results of its populariy:

Year(s) United States Top 1000 (male) Rank
2005
-
2004
-
2003
-
2002
-
2001
-
2000
-
1999
-
1998
-
1997
-
1996
-
1995
-
1994
-
1993
-
1992
-
1991
-
1990
-
1980-1989
-
1970-1979
-
1960-1969
-
1950-1959
-
1940-1949
-
1930-1939
-
1920-1929 1000
1910-1919 856
1900-1909
-

The difference is significant, and made me realize something about naming children: the classics are making a comeback, so it's important to weigh your choices thoroughly if you want to choose a name that isn't overflowing with popularity. I know that I want to give my child as much individuality as possible, so my mind is made up - whatever name we choose will be thoroughly researched first and, of course, repeated many, many times until we can get used to it. =)

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